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Okay so with the subtypes i relate most to conscientious for sure, bit also I'm very cheap, unwilling to share and yeah maybe hoard a bit so a bit of parsimonious. I was a bit confused with bedevilled, i can b passive aggressive for sure and have trouble making decisions and moving forward. Also puritanical but i like to think I'm not judgemental to others because that's against my rules lol. It's a bitter pill to swallow thinking that u r a hypocrite, i am one in ways for sure

I'm scared that i might have this. My therapist gave me a diagnostic impression of BPD and ADHD but I'm not sure she's correct. I also identify with DPD. I can recognize OCPD in my dad and sister too. I don't know if I'm as bad as them, i do doubt myself quite a bit, i don't think I'm always right. I definitely do have sky high standards for myself and i know it's worse for others when they're closer to me, it's like the standards start to bleed over onto them as well, not sure if I'm explaining that well. I'm crap at teaching people because i have no patience and i have kids so yeah it comes up quite a bit. I hope i can do better

The rants are irrational 😵‍💫 It breaks my heart that my loved one has this issue. But it is so clear that she has OCPD 😢 I found that if I join her rant and then I slow down she will join me in slowing down😢

My 22 year old son was diagnosed with OCPD after his second stay in the hospital for suicidal idealization. His anxiety and OCPD is so bad, he is housebound. Everything you describe resonates with how he describes he is feeling. I plan on educating myself as much as possible. Thank you!

I was dating someone diagnosed with OCPD and he was brilliant. However, he would tell me I was, "too good to be true." He put me on a pedestal to one day push me off and watch me completely break.

Thank you 😊. Hope you're doing well these days

Are you in Medellin Colombia in this video❤?

Hi! I'm currenlty in confusion wheter i possibly has OCD or ODCP, as I have both symptomps and aware i have at least one of them. The thing is, I need everythin in most efficient way possible but i procasinate a lot, which in fact is OCPD but i also been told from my firends i have bad case os OCD, as I always check something too much. I will check my mail like 10 times before i send,a nd even then ill check again. I want to seek treatment but I'm not allowed to go to either psychiatrist and therapist, so i'm doing my best to try to be better at least a bit until i can afford myself. I know i can't self diagnose, but i'm going crazy at this rate, just the thought of playing game not in order/efficiently will make my mind go crazy. For example, playing new games/studying new topics, i have to do it on Monday/First day of the month, If somehow i miss it (becasue i procasinate) i will have to redo it next week or month all over again, no matter if i already finishe dhalf of it. If i miss something in game i have the urge to redo all over again, to the point where its driving me crazy. I don't know what to do, and I'm really stressed

Your intro is all the summary one needs of what it's like to be in love with someone ocpd.... 3000 words to say 30 important ones

The need to control the narrative comes thru from the get-go. The ppl-pleaser too. Justifying endlessly, mired in minutia to the point of procrastination..... And I could see how this might be seen as a target by bullies.

Huge thank you for creating this channel -Psychology student, searching for people's experiences with a disorder :)

Thanks bro, well done, wonderful, no need to apologise for length, couldn't hear background noise so all good. Much thanks.

Thank you for doing this work and putting this information in a video that I understand. My bf recently moved in and he is exhibiting a struggling. He needs every shoe in the cubby or it really gets to him. He sees it as me not respecting him. And of course the list is really long. It’s not just the shoes. The longer he lives here the more I find myself changing how I do things. And I am fine if it is a compromise. But typically when we compromise he ends up struggle to be ok with it. It has to be His way or he literally goes into a funk or a temper tantrum. Neither are fun to deal with. The last 48 hours he has been upset 5 times. Makes it hard for me to be my happy-go-lucky self.

Has anyone else been diagnosed with ocpd and later found out they are also autistic? It’s difficult to find much info but the little bit I’ve gathered they seem to overlap often

Thanks!

Thanks for the video. So much that I can relate to.

Very good points. I didn't bring up OCPD to my spouse. I called out the comorbid depression and said that I couldn't watch him suffer to this degree anymore. He could go for an evaluation and try to start helping himself, or he could live alone. I have my own psych diagnoses and knew that any psychiatrist worth their diploma would screen for personality disorders once the depression started to resolve, and that is exactly what happened. It took changing doctors 5 or 6 times to crack the denial, plus me getting pretty blunt and consistent with calling out ocpd behaviors in the moment they were happening at home to get him to finally acknowledge that this label, as distasteful and stigmatizing as it is, is still the best description of the problem patterns that we've got because it leads to the most effective, targeted treatment. It's still a battle every day and many things haven't improved, there are still phases where he gets caught in denial again, but it waa also 100% worth convincing him to get help. Not necessarily because i have an easier time, but because he certainly does, at least when he's actively working on it.

Personality disorder (like skin or bone sickness) It a lense thought whichi see the world ( true or false) I have ocpd It's a filter of my thoughts I am never wrong ( rigidity ) The matrix Work over life ( perfectionism) Angry argumantative pessemistic anxious The lives of thise around him is a hell life. Success rate is low Divorce and suicidale rate is high

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But what if my ocpd partner doesnt want to talk?

A friend told us she was diagnosed with OCD. I think she misunderstood her doctor as she has all the signs of OCPD 😕😕😕

Ive been with my partner for 5 + years. He has a history of depression and anxiety and I suspect he has ocpd. Hes extremely sensitive and takes any criticism as a personal attack. If i tell him he's wrong he gets defensive and lashes out. He gets very upset if things are out of place. He's literally stood over me telling me I was washing a dish wrong. If I joke around with him he takes fun loving sarcasm as a personal attack and swears im trying to hurt him. He has strong opinions about how everyone else should live theie lives and tells other people how they should to do things. He's tried to tell me what to wear, how i should wear my hair. Ive told gim u could never live with him because he's very persnickety. I was being kind .. he gets very mad when i say that. I've told him hes domineering and he doesn't believe he is. He's very generous with his money and has a stable job. Hes not a bad person. I love him, but I don't see a future with him if things keep going this way.

Great video! I enjoy watching both of your guys' content. Keep up the great work!

I was diagnosed with OCPD and GAD by my long time psychiatrist. I still can’t believe it. I know I’m very prone to panic attacks and anxiety attacks. I had several nervous breakdowns maybe caused by my health issues that keep creeping up. But til today I still can’t believe I’m OCPD.

Thanks again for having me on Darryl!

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I think I know someone who has this but I’m not a professional nor am I neurotypical either. Also, this comment section is freaking me out, but people constantly misinterpret folks with ASD and I have a micro channel on yt so I know how it is lol Do you think someone with OCPD has the self-awareness to mask their symptoms and consistently tell lies to a friend they care about or are trying to ‘impress’? I’m worried about them and want to tactfully bring it up but don’t want to cause them any emotional pain. I’ve caught them telling a couple of ‘white lies’ though and want to bring it up. They have told me that they appreciate a direct approach in the past (they know I have ASD), but now I’m starting to believe that they may have been masking to seek approval from me. I don’t want to cause them any harm or anything by starting a conversation bc I appreciate them a lot. Thank you 🙏 I appreciate your videos ❤❤❤

I usually leave before you get to the point

Thank you

I am a newly diagnosed OCPD.Are we born with this disorder or we develop this?

What goes on in the mind of someone with OCPD during the process of getting to know each other in a relationship? I met someone through a dating app and noticed several things that seemed off about him. He mentioned that if things didn't go according to plan or if he were to be late, it would ruin his day. He also admitted to being stubborn and insisted that things he deemed important must be done his way. He had a stiff demeanor, wasn't very talkative, and sometimes had a critical look about him. During our chats, I could see he was stubborn and he couldn't help but offer his commentary. On our second date, he mentioned finding it too expensive to go to the zoo, which I found cringe-worthy for a second date. He also expressed concern about wasting money. I'm someone with my own opinions who can't easily be swayed, and he knew that. Despite this, I could see he was interested in me and wanted to continue. Sensing something was amiss, I addressed the communication issues, being a social and spontaneous person myself. I asked him honestly if he still had interest. He admitted to sometimes being convinced and sometimes not at all, which was unexpected and blindsided me. He explained that the problem was he had an idealized image in his head and deviated from it. Despite continuing out of interest and hope, he didn't know what the outcome would be. He indicated that he knows that sometimes you have to deviate from your ideal image and then he gave whether he is just wise to himself? Seeing his confusion, I told him that if he had doubts, it was best for him to end it with me. I then promptly blocked him. Sometimes I feel guilty for not discussing further, as I could see he was confused. For those with OCPD, what do you actually feel when you're in a relationship and have interest in the person but their standards sometimes don't align?

I have my 23year old cousin who has this same issue and he is taking therapy. He is too young. Is there a hope in his case, that he will fully recover? Cause, he knew his problem at the age of 23.

My psychiatrist also diagnosed me.

Damn y’all are so mean in the comments and can definitely tell are jaded as well. It’s harmful and hurtful to label people with OCPD as Evil, mean and downright “unfixable”. I appreciate your responses to the comments @ocpdfoundation. I some people are hurt, but I suppose the hurt people hurt people saying is true. I’m here to say there is light at the end of the tunnel and everybody that has OCPD doesn’t have the same symptoms. Everybody isn’t mean.

Awesome editing. Deserves 180K views not 18K views

Yeah sure its a problem but aint that bad ocpd make the best employees and so many more benefits

You talk in one pitch which makes your speech boring..... please make changes

curious if you had any form of childhood neglect or trauma?

Hi, I wanna let you know that your videos really give me a chance to reflect and work on my ocpd issue. Thank you!

The video you referenced in the very beginning of your broadcast

Could you specifically mention the exact title of the previous video? I can’t seem to find anything matching what you have suggested….

What are the chances of a person with ocpd to accept their problem, accept help, and get better? Is it something close to zero?

I'm in a new relationship with someone with OCPD which has me really delving into the disorder (I have a few comorbities myself) and I've noticed some common traits in myself but this one is the first that made me feel like I might have OCPD, but just on my rock bottom so I constantly think I'm wrong 😢 worried I'll self sabatoge the relationship because I cant handle the imbalance while she has the disorder, but the success to back her up that justifies her behavior over mine... now I'm shutting down worse because every day I am reminded I AM a failure..

I have OCPD. And I've notice that ON AVERAGE, people that are FORCED to be around me, due to unavoidably SHARED ENVIRONMENT, accept me very well... Yet people who know me only sidewalkally, don't accept me at all. I'm just an unexplainable WEIRDO to them...

I raised my eyebrows at the Jesus quote, but you lost me at ayn rand.

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I am referring to my 51 year old son….he suffers terribly with severe OCD he also has been diagnosed with OCDP. His condition became obvious to me when he was about 6 years old ….that’s in hind sight. 45 years ago I wasn’t aware of such a disorder. A bit of history…….His father was a narc. Very abusive and constantly ridiculed all 4 of his children as well as physically abused all including myself. I won’t go into all that. Meanwhile I also became part of a religion that helped me regain some of my self esteem and self worth. It taught my children and myself value as Gods creation. All that was good. However it was also restrictive. Three of my four children chose to turn away from this religion as they reached their later teens including this son. It’s all okay they are still all good honest and descent people thanks to this religion. Coming back to my son and his OCDP AND OCD. He lives with me and it’s a daily struggle for him and me with his obsessions, compulsions and rituals. He really suffers and it is heart-breaking to watch and live through. His constant obsession with germs and hand washing. Hi hands and knuckles are cracked and bleeding all the time. Window and doors have to be checked and locked. And one of the worst things is his hoarding and stacks of newspapers in the entire house. I have not been inside any of the bedrooms for about 17 years so far. Also no access to the lounge or dining room. All stacked almost to the ceiling with newspapers. As well as the dining room table and buffet and any other surface he sees suitable for his use. I myself was always houseproud and now I will not open the door to visitors because of the living conditions. Most of all I feel so sorry for my son because he isn’t enjoying his life. How do I help him? I am mindful of not being an enabler but he can get so stressed that I worry that he’ll have some heart episode…..,I just keep quiet and out of his way. Having said all that ..he is very caring and loving towards me and would do a thing to help e.g.shopping and taking my scripts in for me ….washing my car. He brings me coffee in bed every morning. He is very kind-hearted. OCD AND OCDP is a terrible disorder.

I would not suggest using a cartoon masked caricature as a replacement when you have no video. An image would have been fine. I found it very distracting from the content.